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"Anger is like drinking poison and expecting your enemy to die" - Unknown, widely attributed to Buddha
I don't have much advice to you on how to solve your particular problems as there's a dearth of information on exactly what is going on, but what I will say is that you'd be best to keep a clear head, and logically, rationally work through your problems, looking for acceptable solutions. For example if you are inextricably in conflict with your landlord and other tenants I'd consider moving out if I were you. A living space is a place you should feel safe and secure in, a sanctuary. You will feel much happier if you find better living arrangements.
I don't know what 'taken off phones' means but you should find a way to contact these 'support staff'. It's 2014, people have email, mobile phones, you can still write to people also.
Look for methods of resolving conflict through being understanding. Don't respond to insults as they are often either designed to elicit a response (and therefore responding to them only grants satisfaction to the person who is insulting you) or are expressions of frustration and not a true representation of how the person views you.
He think, I'm a piece of dog shit that he has on his shoe. I am fuming right at the moment..
I'm a money grabbing, fat, pitiful. EXCUSE ME HE'S F***KING THE MONEY GRABBER!!!
He's the one who's decided he is going to get paid for doing nothing with the one call phone, and the worst thing is he'll put the phone down on you when all you need a piece of friendly advice. He gets paid the hours for doing it too. Because he doesn't get called for above reason.
Not only that he answer with ' What?.'
Puts you down and then insult you and his support staff. Who try there very best to get it right!
Now i'm not going have any means of contacting them because he is taken off phones in September!
I am trying not to use to many capital letters. but I am outrage my right as a human being is being ignored. He is taking away our freedom. I'm scared, confused and frighten am I not a human too?
Don't I get a say in this?
He is an ogre, a big fat one at that.
that is not my attention. I would love to teach her how to listen though.
It's funny, rarely does a rational conflict get solved by escalation but sometimes when dealing with an irrationally abusive person it helps to scare the fucking shite out of them. When I was young I was once troubled by a bully who would frequently slap me on the head. One day I broke his nose. I don't have these sorts of issues anymore.
Not that I condone violence of course.
Be more firm. Be confrontational if you have to. And if someone assaults you you're within your rights to whomp their arse in self defense.
Don't let this person bully you! Someone attacking you is assault! If I were you I'd confront her on her behaviour and if she does not stop I'd either talk to the landlord or whatever other building authority and make your feelings clear, or attempt to record her if she assaults you again (secretly) and take this information to the police.
This person is unstable and potentially needs help themselves. She may have had a poor upbringing or even a mental illness which causes her to act in this way. Regardless you have to be firm. There is absolutely no reason to live in fear.
I don't know about you sister in law.... but if that the kind of person we are talking about you can very rightly call her a name.
Like moron for example. Oops looks like I used a naughty word myself.
Phone calls: She has chase me out the house twice, attacked me once and threaten to do again.
I had to call the police on her the first time. Support staff have had to held her back. She has even blocked my way down the stairs.
I'm scared, anxious and very concerned, everytime I hear her complaining or her voice: I catch my heart beating and my face cringes.
I'm am trapped in this cage with the lioness waiting to attack. Anything I say to her is wrong. Even when I've been told I'm doing the right things. She insult me and then tries to make me look like the bad person.
I feel that I can not express my dislike of her, Even if I read out her name in a story it will happen again.Trapped in my room
no way our, no way out. I've heard the scream today and even heard her say to the staff ' Fuck off' or ' For Fucks' sake'.
The trouble is she believes she is miss perfect and her way is right and she doesn't care for other people. Tracie attitude towards meeting is to scream and shout. Insult you leave the room and then fall into tears. She says stuff like ' I don't want to argue with you anymore.'
Then tries to start one.
Um..Sorry...she just....really irks me. She is just so rude, bossy, uncaring, unkind and just a poor person.
I just feel like the more I'm with her, I want her to see the errors of her ways. But she never will.
I feel that I have to leave the house to make a privet phone call or wait till a time she is out.
Help me what can I do?